SELENA GOMEZ performed at a Christmas concert in L.A. on Friday night . . . but things weren't going well for her.
The sound kept messing up during her set . . . and that was a big deal because Selena was reportedly LIP-SYNCHING. She mentioned the technical difficulties at least once during the show.
Eventually, Selena had enough . . . and after one song shouted, quote, "What the [eff]!" And she did NOT censor herself. She also reportedly "stormed off" the stage early.
It's like a video War of the Roses!
This will be a hard one to explain to the wife...
It looks like IT'S ON between LINDSAY LOHAN and PARIS HILTON . . . after Lindsay allegedly ordered a guy to beat up Paris' younger brother BARRON.
It happened Friday morning during a party at a Miami mansion. The party had started Thursday night, and it was apparently a wild one, because it was DAYLIGHT when the trouble started.
There are rumors that there was coke all over the place, although some have said Lindsay wasn't partaking in that OR alcohol.
Sources say Lindsay heard that Barron was talking smack about her . . . so she approached him with a male friend.
She said, quote, "You talk [crap] about me to my boyfriend, this is what you get." Then her friend proceeded to PUMMEL Barron as Lindsay egged him on.
Cops were called, but Lindsay was already gone. Barron told them he didn't know the identity of the attacker. He ended up going to the HOSPITAL for his injuries.
Barron posted a picture of his face on Instagram . . . and Paris went off. She said, quote, "They both will pay for what they did. No one [effs] with my family and gets away with it!!" Her comment was later removed.
Cops reportedly showed up to Lindsay's hotel twice to talk to her, but were turned away both times. She "fled" the hotel that afternoon.
Police have identified the attacker as Ray Lemoine. He was renting the house, so it was his party. And he says Lindsay had NOTHING to do with the beat-down.
He claims Barron was being a PUNK and refusing to leave when he was told. He tried to pull the "Don't you know who I am?" card, then PUSHED Lemoine . . . so Lemoine whooped him.
There's been bad blood between Paris and Lindsay ever since 2006, when Paris' friend Brandon Davis went on a vile, hateful rant against Lindsay in a paparazzi video, calling her "FIRECROTCH," among other things.
Give It Time
The key to being friends with an ex is time. I couldn't be friends with my ex until several years after we broke up because I was still healing and dealing with those issues. You have to allow yourself time to heal and time to move on before being friends with your ex. Trying to be friends too soon may end up with someone getting hurt again, and you don't want that.
Be Cordial When You See Each Other
You should always be nice when you see an ex because that's the right thing to do. If you're nice to your ex instead of harboring bad feelings, it'll be much easier to be friends down the road.
Be Careful When Reminiscing
When you're talking to your ex, be careful about reminiscing over those good times. It's nice to look back at the happy parts of your relationship, but doing so can bring up old feelings.
Don't Bring Up Old Issues
Also be careful not to bring up old issues from your relationship. You're not together so there's no reason to talk about how he's the worst texter ever or how he didn't take you to see The Hunger Games. There's no reason to fight about things that were issues in your relationship if you're trying to be friends.
Avoid Relationship Talk
Unless you're super comfortable with your now-ex, avoid talking about relationships with other people. My ex and I have been broken up for five years now so it's not weird when we discuss our current relationships. If you're still new to being friends, just avoid talking about this because it can spark jealousy or make someone upset. Do you really want to hear all about your ex's new girlfriend?
Manage Your Expectations And Be Honest
You need to have clear expectations if you're friends with an ex, and you need to be honest with them and yourself. Are you trying to be friends because you hope you'll get back together? Do you still have feelings for them? These are questions you need to ask. You can be friends with an ex without having feelings for them, but you need to be honest if there are any.
I have a lot of friends who are friends with their exes, but they're still hooking up. And that causes a lot of problems for them. No wonder! If you strictly want to be just friends with your ex, you need to set boundaries. Shut down flirting if there is any, don't text them 24/7 and don't hook up!
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